Being A Girl

If Testicles do It’s Okay but if Vagina Dares it’s Immoral

"The struggle of women and transgender is the same. Both the sections are surviving and breathing for ages but sadly aren’t accepted and liberated to live on their terms entirely. Indifferences and intolerances are still engraved within the patriarchy."

In speeches, a woman is Laxmi, but in reality, women are mere sex toys surviving in the undisputed world of patriarchy. Kindly don’t mistake me, I am not feminist, I am just being myself, I am just being a GIRL.

It’s my 'vagina' that decides my time to wake up, it’s the feminine bone in me that orders me to adjust because I am a girl, it’s my bleeding vagina that pricks me say ‘you have to fight your own pain’ because none will understand the immeasurable pain of those 6 days while you discharge those thick clots, the cramps you bear and the mood swings you battle with a broad a smile.

The terms woman and sacrifice go hand in hand because parents teach their daughters to quietly take in all the pain by never losing your calm. And the only reason is your vagina.  

If he drinks it’s usual but if she lifts a vodka shot it’s labeled as immoral if he wishes to live a life of vagabond or wanderer it’s cool but if she aspires either she’s a fool or etched as slut, if he spends thousands ‘it’s his earnings’ but if she spends we say ‘learn to save before you repent’.

He can slap his wife if he’s pissed whereas she is expected to remain zipped while yell and abuse her.

Why such indifferences and who drew these boundaries?

A man born through her vagina tends to enslave the vagina because he’s taught to do so by the vagina herself. When we say education begins at home it's never the alphabets or calculations but the values and perspectives. 

While your sleep in you push your daughter to wake up early and do chores because if she fails to manage both house and studies during her teens she will also fail to be a good wife and daughter-in-law because a woman is expected to juggle all spectrums of life without falling apart.

When a daughter is married you tell her that from now on your husband's home is your home but no one reassures her that her domicile will still remain hers.

I am not counting every woman but the girls who desire to wear shorts but aren't allowed, the working ladies who want a day off from their and home and wish to be pampered but a working woman or housewife can't take off from daily chores, the aspiring ladies in the corporate world who aspire better pay and designation but aren't availed (mostly) because it's your vagina and not the caliber that manipulates your job, the newly-weds who wish to be treated as a daughter and not daughter-in-law but poor creatures can only wish because the difference is undisputed, the girls who want to live their life but sadly caught up in the vicious cycle of 'what will people think'. I am merely talking for them.

Always remember, being a girl isn't tough until society and it's predefined policies makes it a war for a girl and their vagina to live happily. 

Your's faithfully 

A Girl

To Be Continued....